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二胎后，我时而歇斯底里，时而愧疚不已

2017-10-31 | 腾讯育儿婚姻家庭青少年

我经常说我们家老大在老二出生后，

因为有爸爸全权负责，落差算是很小的。

可仔细想想，

缺失的妈妈的爱也还是会让他受伤害，

都说生了老二要加倍爱老大，

说起来容易做着何其难。

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在刚怀上番茄时，我就抓住机会用任何办法向土豆极力渲染有个弟弟或者妹妹的好处：“你太幸福了，以后会妹妹陪你玩”，“你看妈妈有弟弟妹妹，就是二姨小姨她们啊，是不是好幸福呀？”，“妹妹会非常爱你的，因为你是她在这个世界上唯一的哥哥”。

也会尽力表明心迹，“虽然妈妈会再生个妹妹，但你永远是妈妈心爱的宝贝”，“就算你做得不好妈妈评论了你，但妈妈还是会很爱你”……

可是无论再怎么渲染，都改变不了我把时间和精力要分给妹妹的事实，也许他渐渐会接受并且爱上妹妹，但肯定有一个挣扎的过程，在学习和接纳的路上，他会失落会心痛会叛逆会捣蛋，可这不是他的错。

没人天生会当老大，唯有用爱来浇灌他。

没人天生会当二胎妈，我也要一直学习啊！

生二胎，考验加倍，但幸福也是双倍的！虽然现在整天是鸡飞狗跳，但有一天老大会学会爱老二；有一天，我也会成长得更加坚强 ，足以面对生活的一地鸡毛！

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